marry a woman at some point in their lives.
In fact, according to a 1993 nationwide survey, approximately 20% of gay men in the U.S. The reality is, though, that there’s no one-size-fits-all age as to when you should come out, so if you find yourself in a situation where you’re discovering your true sexuality after already saying “I do,” you’re not alone. And if you’re already married, that conversation gets even more complicated. While coming out can be a cathartic experience, for many, it also comes with some added anxiety and fear about how other people will react.
